Basic Needs for Family bonds
It is important to have strong connections with your family. Your family connections and life can affect you for life, so staying in contact with loved ones is important despite time and distance.
- Inclusivity
- Shared experiences
- Connectivity
All of these are important for family bonds to stay intact while preserving privacy of others.
Overall technology...
Can be designed to reinforce family bonds in extended families. However, there are limitations to technology aiding family bonds. There have been breakthroughs, like Facetime, group calendars, and even social media however these come with limitations. Designing technology to reinforce family bonds in extended families rather than breaking them requires careful consideration of the needs and dynamics of these families and their privacy. To design technology that is inclusive to extended families we need to consider inclusivity, shared experiences, and connectivity.
Inclusivity
The first thing that needs to be considered when discussing reinforcing family bonds in extended family is inclusivity. This is to ensure that the technology is accessible to all family members, regardless of age, technical proficiency, or location. This may involve creating user-friendly interfaces and providing support for those less familiar with technology (ChatGPT). I believe that Facetime, and phones in general need to be more accessible for elderly people so getting in contact with grandparents, or older relatives wouldn’t be so confusing for them. One experience I have is always having to explain to my grandparents how Facetime and text work.
Tech is not very user-friendly for older generations that have a hard time adapting to new technology. There may be some good adaptations like, voiceover, adjustability text size, and spoken contact (Stocks, 2021).
Altercation offered
One solution I propose is limiting all of the unnecessary thing’s phones come with. One thing I believe that should be gone is extra apps, these clutter the phone and I have heard my grandparents even say before how distracting they are, as they seem to hide the important things they need. Another thing that the older generation could go without is unnecessary phone jargon, some things in settings and on the home screen use words that may not make sense when connecting them to an action, like ‘focus’, ‘control center’ and ‘widgets’.
Shared Experiences
Recent apps and technology allow applications or services that encourage shared experiences among family members (ChatGPT). Facebook is a popular social media platform used by older generations to share personal experiences and photos. Having shared experiences on the web can of course be a scary thing however it is a great way to stay in touch with family members.
Pictures get processed by our brains about 1000 times faster than text (and they) evoke emotions, inspiring thoughts and memories about the event captured. (“Why”, 2017)
Because Facebook is an older app and came out in the generation of our parents, it is easier to access for older people. My grandmother who had lots of trouble with technology, as previously stated, could manage Facebook and loved seeing the pictures I would share. Facebook has also had easier transitions to new updates making it more accessible for older extended families. Having these shared experiences through the use of technology can strengthen family bonds and make the time spent apart seem less great.
Altercation Offered
One altercation that I believe could make Facebook be improved for family connections is to have a family only page. This could be a simple accessible click for people to change their feed to selected family members to specifically see what is going on in each other’s lives. Overall Facebook allows families to stay connected when not together and give a sense of these shared experiences.
Connectivity
Connectivity through collaboration apps is a great way to connect extended families. This is something that isn’t done in my personal family but I think it could make a significant difference. One example is group calendars. Even putting something as simple as your birthday can help include yourself in your extended family’s lives. A reminder of a birthday or a big event, even if you can’t go to it, can create a sense of connection and a conversation starter. These calendars should be easily accessible for older generations as well. Having organized communication about group events as well is important and can improve the time you spend with your family. Figuring out all the details through group calendars allows families to settle and relax when you get there and really put the technology aside. This is implied; however, calendars allow people to really be able to set a time that is not stressful for everyone to get together in person and be 100% there. Connectivity is important as it allows relationships to grow outside of time spent together in person. It is “important to make being connected to our extended family a priority, and technology is a great tool to utilize”(“Why”, 2017). Group calendars could be a great addition to the technology used to stay in contact with family members.
Tech and the Digital Divide
Media Viewed together, between parents, and children and even with extended family creates a sense of community online. This allows families to stay in contact with each other throughout the day for more than just communicating necessities.
Children and parents interacting together with media, and children teaching parents how to use various media and technology, bring the potential to both reduce the digital divide and increase a sense of family connectedness (Walker, 2022)
This can also help with staying in touch with extended families across great distances. Being in constant touch with families can help relationships last and become stronger.
Privacy Problems
Privacy can be hard when dealing with the internet. Of course, you want to share experiences online with extended family members however privacy can be hard when using any technology especially social platforms to share with your family.
Find a purpose to your screen time so that it doesn’t become a pastime, YOU’RE IN CONTROL OF YOUR FEED. RECOGNIZE WHAT’S UNHEALTHY AND HIT THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON ("25 Easy tips", 2020)
Having a purpose with the things you share online, like connecting with extended family and reinforcing bonds can help give screentime purpose. To ensure your privacy, it is the best idea to try and limit the number of people you can view on your social media. Having your family is good, and pretty safe as you can rely on them and know what your posting is relatively private. Because in the end, nothing is private when the internet is involved.
New technology is becoming increasingly more likely to invade our privacy. technologies like smart tv's, rumbas and social media are being smarter using technologies to try and become more and more accurate for its users.
The primary purpose of these disturbing new technologies is not to influence consumer behavior but to generate accurate predictions about it (Fitzpatrick ,2019).
As previously mentioned, Facebook is one way to aid in connections with family members. However, Facebook, although it may seem private, is not. The app and its creators are using personal information to try and manipulate and control our actions within and outside the app (Fitzpatrick, 2019).
To Finalize...
Designing technology to reinforce family bonds in extended families is a complex and ongoing process. It requires a deep understanding of the family’s dynamics and an interactive approach to design that adapts to their evolving needs and preferences. By considering the principles mentioned above, tech designers can create tools and build upon existing tools that can strengthen family connections rather than weaken them. Overuse of technology or excessive screen time can have negative effects on family dynamics, with the right balance it can reinforce these family bonds that are interrupted by time and space.
References
- 25 easy tips for using social media responsibly. Smart Social Learn How to Shine Online. (2020, July 15). https://smartsocial.com/post/using-social-media-responsibly
- (2017) Why Extended Family is so Important to Childhood Development. Grade Leap Smart Kids. Organized Kids. http://gradeleap.com/blog/family-time-counts/
- Stocks, S. (2021) 9 Hidden Settings to Make iPhones More Accessible for Older Adults. Fox. What We Do. https://www.foxrehab.org/9-iphone-accessibility-settings-seniors/
- Arnott, R (2023) How to Use Technology to Strengthen Family Bonds and Communication. The Digital Parentshttps://thedigitalparents.com/family-activities-and-bonding/how-to-use-technology-to-strengthen-family-bonds-and-communication/#:~:text=Here%20are%20some%20tips%20to%20help%20you%20use,then%20let%20it%20go.%20And%20make%20it%20intentional.
- Fitzpatrick, K (2019) At the Frontiers of Surveillance Capitalism. The Nation
- Walker, S. K. (2022, November 14). 8.1 technology use for family communication and connectivity. Critical Perspectives on Technology and the Family. https://open.lib.umn.edu/technologyfamily/chapter/8-1-technology-use-for-family-communication-and-connectivity/
Website by: Sophie Knox - NMD 200 Designing Humane Tech (Fall 2023) - Professor Jolene Blais