Mother’s Day 2025 was a very special & sacred day for me.
I was raised with strong teachings from my grandmother and my mother — two powerful women who shaped my heart, my strength, and my purpose. They taught me to be strong, not to be weak, to always give back to our people, and to remember where we come from. Both of them have since passed, but their teachings live within me every day, guiding the way I walk in this world. Later in my journey, I was blessed with the continued love, support, and guidance of my elder aunties from Pechanga — Auntie Mary and Auntie Gloria. From them, I learned even more deeply how important it is to honor our Native mothers, and especially our elders. These women have given up so much — for their children, for their grandchildren, and often for other family members’ children — helping raise generations with love, strength, sacrifice, and our Luiseño ways. I am deeply grateful for the knowledge, prayers, and support they continue to give me.
So I purchased long-stem red roses, tied each one with a bow, and brought them to the brunch that day while the mothers and elders were gathered together. The event was beautifully set up outdoors, under a tent, with tables and chairs where everyone could sit, eat, visit, and enjoy being together. The atmosphere was peaceful, loving, and full of gratitude.
Along with the roses, I prepared gift bags filled with essentials and thoughtful items. My Auntie Dolores and my cousin Jenise joined me that day, and together we handed out the roses and gift bags to our people. Every smile, every thank-you, and every conversation reminded me why giving back matters so much. Many of the women asked why I did this. I told them simply and honestly: I no longer have my mother or my grandmother, and because of that, I wanted to share my love and bless our Native mothers and elders in their honor.
That day felt guided. I truly felt Creator shining over everyone, surrounding us with warmth, protection, and love. It was more than a Mother’s Day celebration — it was a reminder of who we are, where we come from, and the responsibility we carry to uplift one another. This day will always stay in my heart. It was an honor to give, to serve, and to stand beside our Native mothers and elders — the backbone of our families, our culture, and our communities.