So what exactly is boudoir?
Boudoir Photography isn’t just about taking sexy or risqué photo for a partner. It’s about feeling good in our own bodies, loving the flaws we all have, and empowering ourselves.
Especially as women, there is been so much negativity toward the way we look or the lack of power we feel we are given. I find this to be unbelievably untrue.
We all have the will to love ourselves, be loved and love one another. Don’t be afraid to give into that feeling. Trust me, YOU deserve this!
Who is Jill
When I shot my first boudoir session nearly 10 years ago, I was hooked instantly. I saw the women I was working with completely transform during that shoot- her confidence was on fire and she was so in the moment- it was beautiful! Ever since then, I strive to make everyone that comes my way feel confident and beautiful in his or her own skin.
I believe in boudoir and know it can and does change people's lives.
The Vision of Bare By Barrile
The vision for bare is unlike anything I have come across before.
Our vision is more than a photography shoot but an entire experience based around your truths, your values, your celebrations, your journey, your heart, your rawness. We take you to a place of creative freedom where you are able to connect with your body and sensuality more intimately, vulnerable, and presently than you may ever have before.
I will always meet you where you are but my goal is to bring you to your edge over and over again. My purpose is to walk alongside those who want to connect with their truth and open up their eyes to the possibilities in their life, stand strong in who they are, that allow them to live the life meant for them.
When is the right time to book?
The time is now!
If you have been thinking about it, it's time to book.
If you are ready to do something just for yourself, it's time to book.
If you are ready to look at yourself in a whole new way, it's time to book.
If you are ready to celebrate and give love to you body, it's time to book.
If you are ready to tap into your sensuality, it's time to book.
Boudoir has a way of healing scars, showing us how beautiful we are, and lifting us up to a place beyond the clouds.
The Consultation
First things first, let's chat! I'd love to hear more about what you're looking for, walk you through the process, and answer any questions you may have. Want to do something different? This is the time to let your imagination go wild.
Bring me your ideas, your style, and your inner GODDESS. I want to hear it all. Not really sure what you want? I am happy to discuss ideas with you and stylize a look that will exemplify you and your desires. I like to emphasis open communication so both you and I can be completely comfortable.
WHAT CAN I EXPECT?
The Space - Posing - The Timeline
You should totally prepare yourself to be fully taken out of your head and onto the sheets. Most clients come in shy and a little nervous but always leave the shoot glowing with new confidence.
It's a transformation I can't actually explain- because it's mostly FELT. Maybe if I had to descirbe it... it's like the moments after a big accomplishment, getting to the peak of a mountain and enjoying the view, or a good workout combined with the relaxing feeling of spending time at a spa.
The Space
Our studio space is located at 567 Exchange Street just outside the city in Larkinville. The building is a large industrial space and home to many other local businesses and artist. Our space features large natural window light, 4 different sets, a spacious dressing room, photo viewing area, and studio light set up. Based off a clients request, we can convert the space to the ascetic of the session or during our boudoir themed marathons!
Want to go somewhere else? Some girls prefer to book a specific location for their boudoir session. Other loactions might include: airbnb, hotel, inside the home, or outside in nature.
Why would you want to do the sessions anywhere else? Doing the photo session inside your home- brings a whole other level of comfort and spiciness to your images. The same can be for a hotel or airbnb location. Maybe you want to rent out a cabin for a weekend. Nothing screams sexier than planning a weekend away to get naked in the woods- either solo or with a partner.
Posing
As your boudoir expert and guide, I am here to lead you through a series of poses, find the most flattering light, and tweak your angles. It is my goal for you to feel amazing and embrace your body's goodness. Let's be honest, we all have things we don’t like but I bet there are even more things that you love!
Girl trust me, your a bombshell and were going to capture that!
the Timeline
30 mini consolation | 60 min for Makeup application | 90 min Photo Session | 60 Min Viewing Session
Sessions are typically booked on Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays
Pre-Shoot
Let's get you ready- both physically and mentally. After booking, I will start to send you tips + guidence leading up to your shoot to help you get prepared and feeling ready to go!
The Shoot
Your session will begin with professional hair and makeup, music, and a mimosa if you choose. I'm sure you're feeling both nervous and excited, so this a great time to let yourself relax. Let us take care of you! At this time, we can chit-chat, talk about the clothing options you brought with you and air any thoughts running through your head. Let go of anything weighing on our mind so you can be clear and open during your session.
Once you finish with hair and make-up, we will be ready to start with your first outfit. Remember I am here to be your guide but feel free to let your creativity lead you. Be yourself, get weird if you want to, and always remember to breath.
Photo Viewing Party
After your session is over, we will schedule you to come back to the studio for your viewing session. At this time, you will enjoy a slideshow of your images, pick out your album and drool over how amazing you look!
Can’t make it back into the studio? No problem- we can schedule a video call to do the big reveal and allow me to help you pick out your goodies.
You can come to your viewing solo or invite a friend or significant other to share in on the expierince with you!
Let’s Talk Wardrobe
First, if it makes you feel hott, bring it! Something you feel confident and fierce in is always my go to recommendation. But lets get down to the nitty gritty.
Best colors: Neutral colors (black, white, tan, nude, and blush) or dark colors (burgundy, navy, emerald, plum, grey, berry)
Style: bodysuits, crop top/bra & panties, high waisted panties, tight fitting tank tops, tight fitting slip dresses, shaper slips, bralettes
Shoes: I will recommend bringing a pair of house heels with you. These could be as simple as black wedges to sparkly thigh high Bring whatever you are most comfortable in and fits your style. Not a heels girl? Go barefoot! I want you to be as comfortable as possible.
Extras: Want to add more to your look? Fishnet/ stockings, jewelry, robes, hats, etc.
Remember these are all suggestions. The most important thing is for you to feel comfortable and confident- because that is truly what sexy is! If you feel amazing in overalls and a trucker hat- girl, we will rock that out!
Where to shop?
Here is a list of some of my favorite lingerie shops and websites:
Frame of Mind
I believe mindset is everything! Getting yourself prepared and in the right frame of mind can make all the difference. Here are some things you can do to mentally and physically prepare for this really exciting experience:
Meditation | Let yourself relax into the experience of boudoir and intimacy. Here are a few guided meditations to check out: Option 1, Option 2, Option 3
But, maybe you've never meditated before or you don't like it at all. Thats ok! If not, instead take some time to sit and set an intuition for your session. Think, why am I doing this? What am I worried about? What do I want to get out of this experience?
Yoga/ Stretching | Boudoir can be very physical. So I suggest to clients who don't normally stretch out, to start to a few weeks prior to their session- especially the lower back. This will help with posing and movement. Believe it or not, you will be sore the next day. Here are two great video to try out to release your: Lower Body OR Hips
Music | This can really set the tone for your session and help you relax or get hyped. I play music at all on my sessions and have put together a few playlists for you. Feel free to make you own or check out one of mine! Playlist 1, Playlist 2
Affirmations | Sometimes it is as simple as saying something out loud to yourself. I use this a lot to help myself stay focused and present. You can make them up or use one of these:
I got this, I am Amazing, I am good at what I do, I feel calm and confident, I believe in me, this session is going to be amazing, I love my body
This is just self care- but doing just a few of these steps will help you get into a positive and relaxed state of mind not only for your session but for your everyday.
I booked my session specifically to get a book made to give to my partner next month for our anniversary, and I can’t wait to see the look on his face when he opens it up. I’m so incredibly thrilled with the results from my time in the studio, and I highly recommend this wonderful team for all your boudoir needs and ideas!
-Kristina
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you retouch the photos? Yes- but not all of them! Only the images that you purchase or print will be retouched to correct minor imperfections (such as pimples, unusual markings, redness in the skin, etc) I want you too look like you in the end so these touch ups are usually quite minimal
Do you have payment plans for products? If you opt for a payment plan, you must pay 25% of your total during your reveal and the remainder will be set up for a recurring payments for up to 3 months. I also offer Pre-payment plans so you can get started paying for your images before your shoot + cut down on wait time. More Info about our pre payment plans here!
If I don't purchase my images at my reveal, can I come back later and get them? We want to make sure that you get your absolute favorite images, so we will keep your entire gallery on file for 30 days after your reveal for anything you may have missed. After that, we will deactivate your gallery, so make sure you get 'em while you can!! Or pay the $150.00 re-activation fee
Do you shoot on location? Provided I can approve the space beforehand this is definitely an option. Ample natural light is preferred. I also love shooting outdoors if that is something you want to do!
Can I get naked? Absolutely. If you are comfortable, I suggest going naked for part of your session. It can be very liberating and hey, one less outfit your need to worry about.
Building your collection
Not sure what you want? Well here is where you get to build your own package to fit your story, style, and budget
Methods of Payment
WE ACCEPT CASH, CHECK OR CREDIT CARD AS PAYMENT
PayPal Credit and Afterpay are also available for those looking for additional payment methods.
Are your ready to book? To get started you can go ahead and will out this questionnaire for me and we will get you set up with a consultation.
Bare By Barrile | 716-961-8939. | Buffalo, NY