If I had to describe myself to a stranger, I would start by saying I am proudly Nigerian. My cultural background plays a big role in shaping who I am, both in my personal life and in how I see the world. I come from the Yoruba tribe, one of the largest and most vibrant ethnic groups in Nigeria. My mom is from Ijebu Ode, a city well-known for its rich traditions and history, and my dad is from Kogi State, where I also have roots in the Egbe community. Because of that, I grew up speaking Yoruba fluently and understanding a bit of the Egbe language from my dad’s side. It's something I value deeply, having that connection to both sides of my family and heritage.
As the eldest daughter, with two younger brothers looking up to me, I’ve always felt a strong sense of responsibility. In our culture, being the first daughter often comes with expectations—you’re seen as a second mother, someone who helps guide and support the family. Sometimes that weight feels heavy, but it’s also made me strong, resilient, and compassionate.
Culturally, there are a lot of stereotypes about Nigerians, and Yoruba people in particular. Some say we’re loud, always late, or that we love parties and showing off (we call them “owambe” parties!). Like most stereotypes, there’s a little truth that’s been stretched and misunderstood. Yes, Yoruba people are expressive and passionate—we talk with our hands, our faces, and our hearts—but it’s because we value community and connection. And yes, we do celebrate big. Life is hard enough; we believe it’s worth dancing for every good thing. But those stereotypes can sometimes feel shallow, missing the depth, humility, and hard work that define so many of us.
Growing up, my love for Afrobeats was undeniable. I used to compete in dance competitions, and I still find joy in moving to the rhythms of artists like Burna Boy, Wizkid, and Tiwa Savage. Dancing was more than just fun; it was a way to express pride in who I am, a connection to home even when I was far from it. Even now, music and dance are how I recharge when life gets hectic.
One way that sense of responsibility and drive showed up was my decision to join the military. Growing up, I was always disciplined and determined. Dance competitions taught me how to focus, commit, and push my limits. Those same qualities helped me through basic training and beyond. Being in the military strengthened my leadership skills, taught me resilience, and gave me a deeper appreciation for teamwork and service.
At the same time, education is always a top priority. I worked hard and graduated with my bachelor’s degree in just three years—a personal achievement I’m proud of. Now, I’m in my master’s program on the path to becoming a Physician Assistant (PA). My dream is to open my own practice one day, a place where I can blend modern healthcare with the compassion and community-centered approach I grew up with.
At my core, I am a proud Nigerian woman. I carry my heritage with me in everything I do—whether I’m dancing to Afrobeats, helping a child find their voice as an RBT, studying to become a PA, or serving in the military. My culture taught me to be strong, and that strength fuels my dreams. I am building a future where I can give back, lead, and create something lasting for myself and the people who come after me.
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Created with an image by Issaka - "Nigerian woman in traditional attire holding Nigeria flag behind her"