18 percent of Redwood students frequently see something on social media that makes them feel sad or self-conscious.
Social media fuels teenage depression
Jack Block
In today’s digital age, Generation Z has become increasingly dependent on social media. According to the National Center for Biotechnology Information, up to 95 percent of teenagers aged 13-17 have reported using social media, with applications such as TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat being some of the most popular among Generation Z users. As each platform has increased in popularity, the unrealistic standards that each app often sets have also increased. Teenagers tend to normalize images and false realities they see online, which can lead to a decline in their mental health. According to a study from Johns Hopkins Medicine, as social media usage continues to grow, so will depression.
Data from an April Bark survey suggests that 18 percent of students frequently see something on social media that has makes them feel sad or self-conscious. Wellness Director Spencer DeWoody works to help students deal with their mental health struggles and believes social media is a key contributor to teen depression.
“The direct impact of social media is that it enhances sensitivity to validation. If I post something, I am seeking out the likes and the dopamine that the post gives. That is one way people are constantly seeking reinforcement,” DeWoody said.
Social media is responsible for generating immense amounts of dopamine, the neurotransmitter in the brain that makes someone “feel good.” Every notification, video or image has a way of inducing dopamine, which can be very unhealthy and make teenagers especially sensitive to activity on social media.
“If someone doesn’t get the feeling of dopamine that they want from a certain post, it might make them end up feeling even lower,” DeWoody said. “Especially with this generation where people feel like they have to post their whole lives on social media and they don’t get enough likes or validation from their post, they can develop an unhealthy dependency on social media.”
Because social media is responsible for a significant amount of dopamine release, it’s easy to become dependent. In a study done by Stanford University’s medical program, researchers have found that dopamine is the main chemical that forms addiction, explaining why so many teenagers are glued to their phones.
“Social media gives instant gratification when those likes start to come in, and it’s almost like a gambling addiction. It’s an intermittent feeling that comes and goes, which is very mentally unhealthy and leaves you craving more,” DeWoody said.
80 percent of girls have altered their appearance online using editing tools by the time they are 13 years old.
Glowing up or breaking down? Perfection at the cost of mental health
Paige Edelen
Within the ever-changing world of social media, one video has been remade over and over: glow-up videos. Whether it be how to become prettier, skinnier, or smarter, there’s no end to the videos that teach you how to be your best self. But is it really about progress, or simply feeding illusions of perfection?
Glow-up videos first started as short YouTube videos that included makeup tutorials, weight loss “before and after,” and similar videos before gaining popularity on social media applications such as Instagram and Twitter and TikTok. The videos typically consist of advice and methods on how to achieve a certain look; allowing industries like Tik Tok Shop – the online store where followers can find the products their influencers use – to explode, Tik Tok Shop making over 33.2 billion dollars in global sales in 2024 alone.
However, glow up videos and the heavy consumption they promote are just one example of a broader issue that social media presents: the obsession with perfection that often stems from comparison to unrealistic standards.
Apps like TikTok, for example, have a wide variety of beauty filters, editing tools, and more, all just a click away. These methods of feigning perfection are heavily utilized. A study by Dove cosmetics revealed that 80 percent of girls have altered their appearance online using editing tools by the time they are 13 years old. Furthermore, 60 percent felt upset when their real appearance didn’t match the one that was edited.
According to an April 2025 Bark survey, 41 percent of students have occasionally felt pressured to change their appearance because of what they’ve seen on social media, and an additional 15 percent frequently feel the same pressure. Clearly, the urge to present a perfected version of oneself has become a normalized part of teenage life.
Behind the post: Social media glamorizing party culture
Chloe Jennings
In high school, teenagers face a plethora of challenges. Drama, schoolwork, college applications and perhaps the worst of all: The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO). FOMO can make or break the high school experience. It’s almost a rite of passage, impacting stress, sadness and insecurities. Whether hearing about weekend plans through the chatter of a classroom or catching a glimpse of a group chat you weren’t added to, FOMO is almost impossible to avoid. When social media is thrown on top of the mess, emotions surrounding the situation only escalate.
But there is a certain extent to which FOMO should — or shouldn’t — dictate decisions. There’s a point when the feeling can take over — peer pressure intensifies, bad decisions are influenced and choices to feel included become potentially unsafe. Underage drinking, smoking, partying and more are commonly influenced on digital devices. Sophomore Margot Rieders emphasizes the amount of influence that stems from social media.
“Every single platform: Tiktok, Instagram and Snapchat. They all encourage alcohol usage in different ways,” Rieders said. “Usually, there are positive and almost uplifting videos saying ‘Your sign to drink this weekend’ or ‘I wasn’t going to drink tonight but then ___’ and the video is someone drinking.”
On Tiktok, likes on videos are hidden with an exception for the creator of the video. On Instagram, users are able to see who has liked what video. Say any given user is scrolling through reels or posts. The bottom bar lists “Liked by ___” and accounts that the user follows who liked that video will be listed.
“I constantly see reels that promote underage drinking and they are always liked by my classmates or friends.” Rieders said.
Influencers hold a large role in this promotion. Sometimes, these influencers are adults or over 21, yet their following consists of younger people. Young girls look up to these influencers, with fan accounts or comments praising that particular person.
“I always see influencers post videos of themselves drinking or partying with ‘Get ready with me to go out’ videos. Recently, there was an influencer’s birthday party where a group of girls partied for 24 hours straight. They made the experience seem fun and encouraged others to do the same thing,” Rieders said.
A junior who wished to stay anonymous, who will be called John, reflected on the experience of seeing substance use advocated online.
“Usually, I like [social media posts encouraging/joking about drinking/substance use] and engage with them. I send them to my friends all the time. I honestly find them funny and I find myself getting excited for the weekend when I see them,” John said.
The false narratives that are spread on social media are infiltrated into societal norms, specifically revolving around underage substance use in high school. A sense of connection is found through social media, sometimes resulting in negative outcomes.
“All the time, I think ‘I shouldn’t be doing this.’ I don’t really listen to my thoughts when that happens. Even if it feels wrong when everyone else is doing it, I don’t want to be the only one not drinking. On the other hand, it feels validating to see people online participating in the same activities that we do in high school. When I see people partying and drinking or anything like that, it makes it feel okay to do the same,” John said.
58 percent of students felt as though social media portrays underage drinking and substance use as casual and normalized.
According to the April 2025 Bark survey, 58 percent of students felt as though social media portrays underage drinking and substance use as casual and normalized. A separate 15 percent felt that it was portrayed positively. Only 7 percent felt it was portrayed dangerously.
“I think that social media makes [underage drinking] into a joke or something silly. It's a humorous thing but some people actually think it's normal to be drinking two times a week even though we are underage,” John said. “Social media exaggerates how much drinking and smoking is okay or feels right. I forget to remind myself of this when I see posts about drinking.”
The yearn to be included socially, professionally or personally can have a large impact on deeper emotions. Even being physically present in a situation, one can experience feeling left out just because of how others are acting.
“Being the only sober person while out makes the experience way less enjoyable. I’ll feel extremely left out and awkward,” John said.“It's pretty rare that people aren't under the influence at social events. Just because everyone is doing it, it makes people scared to miss out on the opportunity or feel left out.”
FOMO doesn’t just fuel the crave to blend in, it also can exaggerate how much fun is actually being had. Social media is a highlight reel: wanting others to perceive your life in a positive way, it's unlikely one would posta miserable situation. It’s not only the drinking aspect, it’s the way the experiences are presented on social media, with post after post gradually creating an overwhelming desire to be there.
“I feel extremely excluded and out of the loop when I can't go to a social gathering. My friends always post on their private stories when we go out and being on the other side of it sucks. I feel like I'm gonna miss something funny, exciting or memorable,” Rieders said. “It’s not necessarily that people are talking about it at school the next Monday, because that honestly doesn’t matter that much to me. It's the tiktoks of everyone going out or the private stories of what's going on.”
Often, social media posts encourage underage substance use or drinking and it is easy to believe what you see online. Due to cognitive bias, users are subject to believing what they see, if it’s something they want to believe. Any given person can create their own “subjective reality” from their perception of the situation. Therefore, teens are easily victim to believing these illegal activities are acceptable.
“I think that people online glamorize bad habits like drinking and smoking and it should be way less normalized. It's super unhealthy to be in high school and see this stuff online extremely often,” Rieders said.
Opinion: Social media has taken away real life
Ofelia Huneeus
Social media has taken the fun out of real life. To lead a happy life now is to lead a happy life on social media. But when it comes to actually enjoying your time IRL, people are flooded with embarrassment and anxiety. Even waiting in line for a coffee becomes a humiliating task if you don’t have the comfort of looking at your phone while you do it.
At Redwood, 85 percent of students said that they have relied on their phones in uncomfortable situations. The same applies to being out in public alone or meeting up with people in the real world. It has become the norm for people to communicate online – students frequently talk to people from neighboring schools on Snapchat, but when they have to interact with them in person, 66 percent of Redwood students find the situation incredibly awkward.
Teenagers have lost the ability to exist comfortably in the real world. People feel humiliated when they don’t have the mediation or protection of their phones. This effect has even extended to parties and proms. What were once fun, intimate events where young people connected face-to-face have now become an unappealing night of awkward silence.
Redwood alum Kalli Fishman, who graduated in 2009, shared her own experience attending prom before the era of smartphones and social media.
“No one had an iPhone to distract them,” Fishman said. “There was tons of dancing and it was a fun night where everyone had a chance to bond with each other.” Fishman remembers the evening as carefree, back then: “Photos from prom ended up in a single Facebook album, not curated endlessly for likes.” She explains how today’s proms feel more like a production, with students spending countless hours trying to look perfect for social media rather than simply enjoying the moment. Her reflections show just how much the culture has shifted, from dancing to posing.
Now, instead of dancing, laughing, and living in the moment, teens are preoccupied with capturing these moments on their screens for their social media accounts. Every move is calculated by how it will look in a story, how many likes it might garner and how aesthetically pleasing it appears. It's less about the experience and more about how your followers perceive your experience.
Now, even the most minor details are turned into social performances. Outfits are chosen not for comfort but for Instagram potential. Candid moments have become extinct because someone is always holding a phone, waiting to turn them into content. People no longer live in the now; they live in the rearview mirror.
This new way of life hunched over our screens isn’t making anyone happier — if anything, it’s doing the opposite. Rates of anxiety and loneliness among teens have surged in the age of social media. Michaeleen Doucleff, a writer for NPR News noted that “across the board, since 2010, anxiety, depression and loneliness have all increased. And it's not just symptoms that rose, but also behaviors," she says, "including emergency room visits for self-harm, for suicide attempts and completed suicides."
The more connected we are online, the more disconnected we feel in real life. It’s ironic that a tool that was supposed to bring people closer has made it harder for them to actually spend time together.
Phones and social media have created an unhealthy habit of becoming bored and uncomfortable over minor inconveniences. Relearn how to be bored in public. How to sit in silence. How to be truly seen, not just as your phone presents you. The more that we show up in real life, the more we’ll remember that happiness was never something to post about, it was something to feel.
Video: Social media’s impact on students
Tessa Marshall and Maggie Walsh
The Bark interviewed individuals from various grade levels to delve deeper into our community's personal experiences with social media. Students expressed common themes regarding their opinions on social media, while also providing us with helpful tools they use to limit their social media intake.