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Stress Management

An Elementary Career Skills Activity

What Is Stress?

Have you ever felt sick to your stomach during a test? Have you had days when you were so loaded down with homework that you had trouble sleeping? Have you ever been so worried about something that you ended up with a terrible headache?

If so, then you know what it's like to feel stress. You've probably heard people say, "Wow, I'm really stressed out" or "This is making me totally stressed." Maybe you hear adults say those kinds of things all the time. But kids have lots of things going on in their lives that can cause stress, too.

Stress is what you feel when you are worried or uncomfortable about something. This worry in your mind can make your body feel bad. You may feel angry, frustrated, scared, or afraid — which can give you a stomachache or a headache.

It may seem like there’s nothing that can be done about stress, but you have a lot more control than you might think.

Stress management helps break the hold stress has on your life, so you can be happier, healthier, and more productive. The ultimate goal is a balanced life, with time for school, friendship, family, relaxation, and fun—and the resilience to hold up under pressure and meet challenges head on.

"Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one." - Hans Selye

Can stress be a good thing?

In small doses experts say stress can actually have some positive effects.

Medium levels of stress can enhance your motivation. For example, the stress of a school deadline can help you focus and pay more attention because time is running out.

Stress will often be a part of the goals you work the hardest at. The accomplishments that you are most proud of and bring the most meaning in your life are often hard and stressful. The journey of working through the stress to reach your goals gives meaning to your struggles and accomplishments.

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.” – Lou Holtz

Healthy habits to manage stress:

Stress management is not one-size-fits-all. That’s why it’s important to experiment and find out what works best for you. With an open mind, try out these activities and identify some strategies that you can work into your stress management routine.

Laughter is the best medicine

According to the Mayo clinic, when you start to laugh, it doesn't just lighten your load mentally, it actually creates physical changes in your body.

Laughter enhances your intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins (feel good chemicals in your body) that are released by your brain.

Laughing fires up and then cools down your stress response, and it can increase and then decrease your heart rate and blood pressure. The result? A good, relaxed feeling.

Laughter can also stimulate circulation and aid muscle relaxation, both of which can help reduce some of the physical symptoms of stress.

Why was the computer stressed after work? Because it had a hard drive.

Rest and Refresh

  • 6- to 12-year-olds need 9 to 12 hours/day
  • 13- to 18-year-olds need 8 to 10 hours/day

Sleep is a powerful stress reducer. Sleep calms and restores the body, improves concentration, regulates mood, and sharpens judgment and decision-making. You are a better problem solver and are better able to cope with stress when you’re well-rested.

What do you call Darth Vader when he's stressed? Panickin Skywalker

Coloring: It's Not Just for Little Kids

Coloring has therapeutic potential to reduce anxiety, create focus or bring about more mindfulness

Coloring relaxes the brain. When thoughts are focused on a simple activity, the brain relaxes and the difficulties of life fade from our awareness.

The act of coloring requires repetition and attention to detail. This allows the brain to switch off other thoughts and focus instead on the act of coloring.

“The time to relax is when you don't have time for it.” – Sydney J. Harris
Why are math books always so stressed? They have a limitless amount of problems that need to be solved.

Exercise

Exercise in almost any form can act as a stress reliever. Being active can boost your feel-good endorphins and distract you from daily worries.

“These mountains that you are carrying, you were only supposed to climb.” – Najwa Zebian
What do you call a worried frog? A worry wort

Healthy Eating

Proper diet can counterbalance the impact of stress by strengthening the immune system, stabilizing moods, and reducing blood pressure.

You don't need to make huge changes to eat healthier. And you don't have to change your habits all at the same time. It's best to set small goals and change your habits a little bit at a time. Over time, small changes can make a big difference in your health.

The T-Rex waiters and waitresses at the restaurant seemed really stressed out. I guess they must have been short-handed

Take a Brain Break

This tip is a fun, easy way to lower stress during big study sessions. Every 30 minutes, take a “brain break.”

Here’s one to try: Listen to two or three favorite songs (a perfect 10-minute break)—and get moving—while taking a break from the books. Choose a fun way to get your blood pumping to your favorite tune: jumping jacks, a short walk outside, even random, silly dancing!

By taking a few minutes away from studying, you will refresh his brain, sharpen his focus and restore his energy before it’s time to hit the books again.

Think about it

What does your stress management routine look like?

How can making stress management a priority in your life?

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