Most people never have the opportunity to visit a foreign domain, much less reside in a new country. Bucknell tennis player Anna Lajos can claim to be one of the select few to do both. The junior has lived in five countries and visited multiple more during her short existence. Her globe-trotting is a testament to the power of athletics and her determination.
Beyond journeying to multiple countries, Lajos hails from a bilingual family; her mother is Russian, and her father is Hungarian. The story of how they met is a simple tale, but it contains a touch of cinematic influence.
“My father worked in hotels, and my mother was a banker. My father’s hotel was right across from the bank where my mother worked. He was actually her client. So that is how they met.”
Naturally, her household jousted with dual languages. Historically-minded readers will recollect many second-generation immigrants in America had the same experience. But Lajos knows more than just Hungarian and Russian. Her tongue can speak English and Spanish as well.
“I loved learning Russian growing up. I always replied to my mother in Russian. I read and wrote in Russian. From a young age, I refused to talk to my father in Hungarian. I understood everything he said, but I would reply with Russian. He would become so mad at me. If I asked for something, he would not give it to me until I asked for it in Hungarian. I was forced to learn Hungarian that way. I learned English when I started attending school at the age of four. My parents speak English with each other. So, English was in my household growing up. I picked up Spanish, my fourth language when I started visiting Spain in the summer. My coaches all spoke Spanish, so I had to learn it, and I chose it as my high school language requirement for an easy A. I am minoring in Spanish at Bucknell.
Lajos was born in Poland and moved to Russia when she was four months old.
“We moved around Russia a lot. I was first in Samara, which no one outside of Russia knows of, and then we moved to Moscow for four or five years. St. Petersburg is where I have lived the longest. It is my mother’s original hometown and my grandparents live there. I lived there for about six and a half years. I consider it my hometown.”
Russia is a land of natural beauty, but her constructed beauty keeps Lajos just as enthralled, especially the architectural marvels that dominate St. Petersburg.
“I remember just walking around the city and noticing all the buildings and all the little details. I love how the bridges open up at night. The whole city is gorgeous. Moscow is different. It is a huge city. You can compare it to New York City. So many people, so much traffic. Not as beautiful. St. Petersburg is where my heart is at.”
Despite her father’s Hungarian origins, she has never resided in the Kingdom of St. Stephen, but to pay homage to her roots, she visits for a couple of weeks every year. She spends her summers in Spain where her parents live now.
Her high school involved a plane trip. She attended a school in the United Arab Emirates. It was an American high school but it wasn’t a Saved by the Bell set-up. The cultural impact of the home region and the city of Abu Dhabi loomed large.
“It was fascinating. There were lots of Arabic kids, and military kids (since there was an American base nearby), and most of my best friends were American. The Middle Eastern influence was felt. We listened to the UAE anthem every morning, raised their flag once a week, and the Arabic kids wore their traditional garb to class, Ramadan was followed so we couldn’t eat or drink in class, but it was interesting. It is a progressive city since 80% of the population are foreigners. I didn’t feel like I was in the Middle East.”
She selected Bucknell for a host of reasons. Lajos always wanted to play collegiate tennis, combined with her interest in America, since collegiate sports are not a cultural force in Europe. Bucknell provided that opportunity to mold her desire to play tennis by attending an American school.
She picked tennis out of a large range of options.
“Growing up, my mother focused on making me a well-rounded individual. I did everything. I played piano, did karate, did ballet, rode horses, and swam. I was quite good at swimming and competed in the sport. Somehow, tennis just stuck with me, and when I reached a certain age and had to pick and specialize in one activity, tennis naturally came to me. Even though I wasn’t the best when I was younger, it didn’t stop me. I didn’t mind being undermined by all the other great Russian little girls. I loved it.”
Lajos adapted well to American and Bucknellian culture due to her diverse upraising and experiences. But she has noticed differences.
“I think there is more freedom in America. You can do whatever you want. You can say whatever you want. It is a melting pot of cultures. Of course, as an international student, it wasn’t an immediate adaptation since I was 17 when I arrived at Bucknell, but it was an easy enough transition. We have plenty of international students at Bucknell, and people here are open to different cultures."
Lajos’ wanderlust tendencies were inherited from her parents and refined by constant trips. They enjoyed traveling, and as her tennis career continued, journeying to different cities on the circuit became some of her favorite memories. It did not matter if the mode of transportation was by car or jet. That love of roving has influenced her Bucknell memories as well. Aside from her first Patriot League tournament at Navy, Lajos cherishes the bus rides, and hotel stays with her teammates.
“I remember the first time we were at a hotel. We all studied together as a team in one room. One time, we ordered Cheesecake Factory on DoorDash and ate cheesecake at 10 p.m. Eating the dessert the night before a big match probably wasn’t the best thing, but it made for a long-lasting memory!”
Her bond with the tennis team shines in how many non-coach-commanded activities the squad participates in. One notable example is when they held a bake-off. Lajos and her partner did not win, but the chance to compete was sweet enough.
“We were paired up, and everyone had to bake something. We tasted-tested everything and had nonbiased, outside people rank the desserts. We were overdosed on sugar and had a movie playing in the background. I was paired up with Madi Sebulsky, a current senior. We had a terrible week because of coursework. So, we made prepackaged cookies, stuck little blocks of squared cookie dough, and put the Halloween sugar cookie on top because we thought it would make for a good design. Honestly, it looked horrifying, but it tasted OK. But Abby Platt’s homemade pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting deservedly won the day.
The team’s closeness resonates despite tennis’ individualistic traits. Outside of doubles, tennis is a single-player sport. There are no 11-man formations or basketball fivesomes or nine fielders spread across a diamond. Yet, the Bucknell women’s tennis team is as tight or tighter than most sports on campus. Perhaps it is the small squad size, but Lajos offers another explanation.
“You don’t feel individualistic or alone on the court when playing collegiate tennis. When you are playing, you are still cheering for everyone. Everyone is screaming and yelling between points. Go, Anna! Go, Abby! You always feel part of something bigger, whether you lose or win. You go off the court and cheer. If you win, you receive one point towards the team average. Everyone is responsible for a win.”
Her favorite Bucknell tennis memory, not surprisingly for the globe-trotter, involved an expedition.
“The freshmen year trip to Hawaii stands out. I didn’t think I would ever be able to go to Hawaii if it wasn’t for the spring break trip. It was incredible. The most memorable trip of my life.”
Interestingly, her favorite memory at Bucknell resides in the most consistent and mundane of events: the sunset.
“I love sunsets and anything to do with them. I love being outdoors and enjoying the sky, especially stargazing. The sunrise is iffy because you have to wake up early and as a college student that is not my cup of coffee, but sunset/sunrise at the Quad is my favorite thing ever.”
Despite her European heritage, Lajos plans on staying in America following her Bucknell tenure.
“I love Europe and the lifestyle there. But I am a career-oriented person, and I want to work in international relations. Washington D.C. would be my dream city to work. It fits my personality, and it fits my goals. It would be a dream come true."
Wherever Lajos ends up, rest assured that she will fit in with the location. She has two seasons of Bison tennis, and that spot is her next stop to visit.
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